Episode 187

Episode #182 - Never Judging A Book From Its Cover: An Interview With Joseph Descans

People can teach us a lot about ourselves, even those that may be leading a sinful life. The ways in which we can live life can also be impacted by those other individuals, but only if we are willing to take lessons from their experiences and put them into practice for ourselves. This requires not only a level of trust, but commitment and dedication to the process that they are undergoing to become better than they once was. Today's guest, Joseph Descans, author of the book "HOSEA: The Prophet Who Married a Prostitute", shares his experiences with writing this book, originally starting out as a movie script concept, and how it has helped him to launch into other projects that was given by God's calling. Through his experiences, learn how you can adapt a deeper appreciation for not only hard work, but dedicating yourself to a particular purpose, "higher" or not, to show how you are able to conquer anything that you set your mind to.

Guest Bio

Joseph was born in Indiana and moved to San Diego, California at 7 years of age with his mom and sister. At the age of 12, he became a surfer and graduated from Torrey Pines High School in the class of 1982, and graduated in 2000 from Point Loma Nazarene University. In addition to being a surfer, Joseph is an arborist, contractor, author, speaker, coach, snowboarder, and fisherman. His first book called "HOSEA: The Prophet Who Married A Prostitute", describes a wealthy contemporary Hosea, by the direction of God, marries a prostitute and starts a family.

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Intro/Outro By: Michael Dugan, Podcast Host: Voice4Chefs

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Intro:

Welcome to the podcast where relationships, confidence, and

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determination all converge into

an amazing, heartfelt experience.

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This is Speaking From The Heart.

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Joshua: Welcome back to episode number 182

of Speaking From The Heart, and before I

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go any further, Happy New Year 2025 as we

kick off a whole new series of Thursday

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interview episodes starting with our first

guest of the new year, Joseph Descans.

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Joseph was born in Indiana and moved

to San Diego, California at seven

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years of age with his mom and sister.

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At the age of 12, he became a surfer and

graduated from Torrey Pines High School in

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the class of 1982, and then graduated in

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In addition to being a surfer, Joseph is

an arborist, contractor, author, speaker,

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coach, snowboarder, and fisherman.

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Today, being on the show, he's

speaking about his book, HOSEA: The

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Prophet Who Marries A Prostitute, in

which, in the story that he writes,

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a wealthy contemporary Hosea, by

the direction of God, marries a

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prostitute and starts a family.

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You know, I have to say, something like

this, kicking off the new year, talking

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about prostitutes, and before you tune

out on this episode, why don't you take

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a listen to it, because I think that

Joseph's conversation with me focuses on

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a number of different aspects not only

the authorship in which is why it was

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such an important work that he did, but

also, what is the thing that really, at

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the heart, you've been working on for

so many years and you need to be pushed

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forward to be able to complete that, and

we talk a little bit about how it took

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so long for him to get to this book and

really get that written, but I think that

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we learn that even as we try to figure out

how we get through these situations that

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we have in our life, even if we find ways

in which we express ourselves, especially

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in writing, how can we make it impact,

whether that's on God, whether that's on

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something that we need to do next in our

lives, I think you're going to learn quite

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a lot today about how we can put ourselves

into a whole new adventure if we're just

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willing to challenge the status quo.

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If we're able, in this case, to take a

contemporary stance on our traditional

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process, maybe even an idea of how it

is that we are able to make such a big

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difference in other people's lives.

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But with that, let's go to the episode.

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All right.

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We're here with Joseph Descans.

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Joseph, thanks for sharing

your heart with us today.

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Joseph: Yes.

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Thank you for having me.

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Joshua: Yeah, absolutely.

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Thanks so much for taking some time,

and actually trying to work this out.

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We had some technical issues

getting started, but it's okay.

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We got there.

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We're on the other side of it, and I'm

super pumped to have you on the show.

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I already let my listeners know a

little bit about your background, but

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I wonder if you could just give us a

big, broad overview of what landed you

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into California just to set the stage,

because we will focus a lot more on your

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book today more than anything else, but

I'm wondering if you can give us a big

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snapshot of what landed you in California

when it was all said and done for us.

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Joseph: Okay, very good, so I was

born in Indianapolis, Indiana, and,

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I don't know, maybe when I was five,

my parents got divorced, something

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like that, and so then my mom brought

my sister and I to California.

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I believe I remember traveling

across the United States.

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I think it was a Volkswagen bus, or

something like that, from Indianapolis

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to California, ended up in San

Diego, and I've been here ever since.

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Joshua: What do you like about

California, if you don't mind me asking?

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Being that I'm a Pennsylvania city

slicker over here, I don't really

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understand the California dreaming.

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Joseph: Right, right, so for

me, I mean, here in San Diego,

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you've got the sun and the ocean.

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I surf.

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I was a professional

surfer for many years.

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My kids all surf.

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It's about 10 to 15 minute drive

to the beach where we like to

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go from my house on the freeway,

so it's a lot of sunshiny days.

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The weather's temperate, right?

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It is hot in the summer, but it

doesn't get too hot and too cold.

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We don't have the big extremes,

and, of course, I can go surfing

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pretty close to year round, so

that's the attraction for me.

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Joshua: I actually wanted to ask you

about that a bit because I saw that that

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was a big part of your background that

you are a surfer, and I'm wondering,

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for my listeners, that aren't like on

the West Coast or have even gone any

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sort of surfing before, what makes you

excited about surfing, or even doing

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that activity in the first place,

because, for me, I never done that.

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I'm more of a farmer where I

grew up so like that's sort of

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my background more than anything.

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Joseph: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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We use this term "stoked", right?

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The whole world kind of hitches that

up with surfers, and gnarly too, so I'm

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both, but here's a funny story for you.

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I was going surfing one day.

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I was down at the beach,

and I wasn't at the beach.

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I was up on the street, but I was

running down to the beach, like kind of a

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little jog, right, and so these tourists

stopped me, and I park on the street.

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You come to the end of the street.

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It was a little roadblock type thing,

you know, at the end of the road.

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It ends at the beach, but it's not the

beach, it's a cliff, so you have to

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go down a little cliff, and so they

stopped me, and they go, "Excuse me.

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Why are all the surfers

running?", and so I looked around.

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I saw a couple other guys, and they were

both running too, and it was only the

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surfers, right, and so I'm all, "Wow.

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That's interesting.", and so

I said, "We're just stoked.

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We're excited about going

surfing.", and so they're, "Oh.

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Okay.

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Thank you.

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Bye.", so it was really funny, you know.

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We got all these people all over the

place, and there's three surfers, and

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we're all running to the beach, so it was

pretty funny, so it's definitely the stoke

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factor: surfing, getting in the water.

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Water is invigorating, right?

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It just is, and then surfing and

riding the wave; it's super special.

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It's fun.

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There's obviously there's a skill.

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There's the whole dynamic of

paddling out, catching a wave, and

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then making the best of the wave.

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Some people are happy just to get

out there and ride whitewaters.

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Of course, I surf professionally, so

I'm kind of at a different level on

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that, but nevertheless, it's just,

riding waves is just really exciting.

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That's all there is to it.

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Joshua: I feel like I've been writing

waves for all kinds of different

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other reasons in my life, so I'm

sure that it has excitement and

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thrill in itself, especially with

catching it at a certain time.

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I mean, is it true to that the

surfer community is really close

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knitted, and really tight when

it comes to different things?

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They're trying to get that

wave, especially if it

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was a hurricane coming in.

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I feel like there's some diehard

people that really are out there

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for the thrill of getting that

perfect surfing opportunity.

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Joseph: Right.

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Right.

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There definitely is.

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There's the search.

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There's the planning.

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I mean, even now, especially when I was

surfing professionally, surfing big waves,

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looking for the big waves, the big swells,

and being at the right place, at the

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right time, when the big swells came in.

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There's a lot that goes into it.

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Now we have surf report, and so you can

get a whole lot of information from that,

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but back when I had less information, I

work mostly off the weather radio, and

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so the weather radio would give you the

winds and the swells, the local wind,

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and then there's a buoy out there a

hundred miles, Tandor Bank, and you get

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different information from up north,

and down south, on the different buoys,

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and so all of this information I would

listen to, and analyze it carefully, and

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plan, and of course, you want to be out

there for the best days, the best time,

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and there's a lot that goes into it.

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We've learned a lot along the way

as far as predictions and stuff, and

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where the swells are coming from,

there's intervals, like how close are

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the swells together, and you learn.

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There's some little bit of information

from all of that tells you how it's

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going to be, so it's definitely

a little bit of work to find that

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perfect day in the planet and be there.

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Joshua: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Oh yeah.

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You have to definitely set up enough

time for yourself, and to be able to

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enjoy that experience, and even have

the patience, if you will, even if there

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is a good report to actually catch one,

so thanks for sharing that, because I

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feel like I'm going to surf right into

your book, and I've been really excited

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about this because it is a fiction piece.

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I just found this out, for my listeners,

as I was talking to Joseph before the

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show, and I'll read the title, and maybe

you need to correct me too, because I was

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trying to figure out if how to exactly

say the first word, but we'll go with it.

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Is it HOSEA: The Prophet

Who Married A Prostitute?

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That's the name of it, correct?

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Joseph: Yes.

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Joshua: Wow.

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When I read the title, I

was like, "Wait a moment.

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Is this about you?", and then

I was looking through it.

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It's like, "No.

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It's not about him.

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It's actually a fiction book.", so I

like that took the element of surprise,

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so listeners, I already redressed that

with Joseph before we got started, but

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tell me a little bit about, first off,

the book itself and the premise of it.

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Joseph: Okay, so it's a modern day

telling of the Old Testament prophet

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Hosea, so in Bible, you know, he's

one of the minor prophets, which

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doesn't make him any less important.

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It's just according to the

size of the book, right?

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The prophet is a type of God, and

he marries a prostitute, and so it's

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God talking about his relationship

with his people as they're going

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back and forth between different

gods, which he calls harlotry, right?

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His God's experience with this

relationship is like being married to a

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prostitute who's constantly out running

around on him, and so, this is the most

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graphically displayed in the books of

Kings, and Judges, and Chronicles, right,

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where they talk about the kings, and

Israel was pretty solid going after other

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gods, but Judah went back and forth,

and so, that's where it comes from, so

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it's God's story, basically, in a sense.

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That's what it's about.

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Joshua: What led you to actually thinking

of this idea outside of it being in the

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Bible, being one of the stories, because I

do remember this even growing up as a kid.

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My stepfather, I didn't tell you this,

was a Lutheran pastor, so I was exposed

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to a lot of those different things.

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I didn't have direct connection

with church and going on a regular

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basis, but I was wondering, why

write a story that's fiction based?

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Joseph: Okay, so what happened is when

I first conceived this, what was it,

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2012, so my habit was to take the kids to

school in the morning, and then come home

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and pray, and so when I prayed, it was

usually kind of walking around the house,

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walking around the kitchen, and so on this

particular day, I just started praying,

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and I was praying for a half an hour, and

things were feeling a little different.

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I was just praying in the spirit, and

after about a half hour, this movie came

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to me, and so I understood a movie, so

it's like in John chapter three when

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you're born again, except you're born

again, you cannot see the kingdom of

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heaven, right, so a lot of the times

we just think of that in terms of

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going to heaven someday, but really,

you're seeing the kingdom of heaven.

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You enter the kingdom of

heaven now, while you're alive.

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Jesus said, "The kingdom of heaven

is at hand.", right, and so as being

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a part of the kingdom of heaven,

sometimes we get to see what's going

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on, so see, meaning understand, and

so I had the understanding of a movie.

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I didn't have a vision.

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I didn't see anything, but I understood

it, so it's kind of interesting the

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way these things happen, and so I just

understood this movie, and so it came

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to me, and for over about a half hour

period, and then I took some notes,

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right, and then I got started, and

so it took me 10 years to write the

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book, so that's where it came from.

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It wasn't my idea.

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I can't say, "Oh, I had

this great idea one day."

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It wasn't my idea at all.

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It was something that

came to me supernaturally.

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I took notes, and then I started writing.

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Joshua: It took you 10 years

and I know for some people they

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might be saying right now, "Wow!

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That's a long time.", and I know that even

for some authors that I've had on the show

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previously, and for my listeners, you have

to go all the way back to Charlie Liebert,

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Hector Ortiz, and other people that I've

had, even Dan Armstrong for that matter.

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I've had many different people that have

expressed their different attitudes,

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their different approaches as to why, and

I actually am curious before I even dive

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into any of those, although it took you 10

years, what kept you going as to wanting

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to write this, and get this out there?

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There had to be some sort of

motivation or drive to push you.

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Joseph: Yeah, so 10 years, I got divorced.

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I moved a bunch of times.

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I think I moved at one point, I

moved five times in two years,

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so obviously, that's crazy.

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I think maybe it was three

years, but nevermind.

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That's just a lot of times, and so-

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Joshua: That's a lot of moving, and that

it eats up a lot of time for writing

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too, so I understand that completely.

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Joseph: Yeah, exactly, so

I had a rough go of it.

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It was very, very difficult times,

and so that definitely threw a

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wrench in time, et cetera, et cetera.

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You just take bites at it to keep going.

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There's so many distractions and all that

stuff in the world, but you know, there's

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just something, there was a seed that was

placed in my heart, you know, at that time

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when I got it, and so I just kept coming

back to it, and like anything, it's a

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process, and so the two big things I had

to get over early was A, just my writing,

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because I was like seeing a movie, but

I was thinking in terms of writing a

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novel, and so I had my tenses all jacked

up, you know, so I was just all over the

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place, and so I finally just said, "Okay.

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We'll do the movie after.

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Let's do the novel first, and get the

tenses down, and then we'll just go

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back and do the movie.", and so that

was one early thing I had to work out.

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It took a while, and then the other

thing is the biggest challenge, you

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know, there's a lot of soul searching

and stuff that happens during the

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process, and so the biggest thing was

I tried to not make it a love story,

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so basically, we as people, we want to

protect ourselves from being hurt, right?

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We enter into relationships, marriage,

and everything else going, "Okay.

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This is for life, and everything's going

to be all hunky dory, and we're going to

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live happily ever after.", but Hosea,

he doesn't come into it like that.

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He comes into it knowing already that,

"I'm marrying a prostitute, and she's

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going to be running around on me.",

right, and so it's like for me coming

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into that, I wasn't able to do that.

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I just couldn't do it, so I tried

to not make it a love story.

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I tried to have him distance himself from

her in a sense, you know, like, "Okay.

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I'm not going to fully engage here.",

but I couldn't do it, and I didn't

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realize what was happening, right, and

so I just couldn't write, I was stuck,

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and so then, okay, what do you do?

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You go back to the book of Hosea,

right, and you just read it again,

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and so I was reading it, and it said,

"Go and love a woman.", and I froze

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there, and I read that, and just

soaked on that, and I go, "Okay.

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That's the missing element.

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That's why I can't write.

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I'm trying to write it without

love, and it's a love story.",

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and God makes him vulnerable.

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He's going to get hurt, right, but

he's willing to take that risk,

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you know, and he says, "Okay.

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I'm going to take that risk, and I

know they're going to run around on

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me and hurt me, but I'm just going

to keep reaching out to them, and

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pray that it works out in the end."

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Joshua: Tell me a little bit

about the editing process with it.

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I know that even from other people

outside of the show that have written

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books, it's a very extensive process.

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You're working sometimes with a publisher,

maybe not, and I kind of curious if you

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did, because I don't know if you self

published this yourself because there is

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an industry for that, but I'm wondering

if you could tell us a little bit about

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how that all unfolded to get to the final

copy that we have available to us today.

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Joseph: Right, so I wrote it,

and it's 10 years writing.

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Joshua: There had to be a lot

of disjointedness with that too,

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especially with it being 10 years old.

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Joseph: And it came together bits

and pieces, and so I just kind

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of wrote as things come together,

and I remember at one point, you

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know, addressing the disjointed.

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I'm like, "Okay.

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Where's this thing?", and so I just

printed a bunch of stuff out, and laid it

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out, spread it out on the table, and then

put it all in order, and then go, "Okay.

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Here's the order, you

know, what goes where.

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How am I going to do this?", and then

I got to a point where I'm like, "Wow.

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It looks like I might be done.

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I think the whole story's done

here.", and so, it's like, "Okay.

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Well let's go ahead and send it.

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See if anybody wants to print

it.", so I sent it to TBN.

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I was getting ads on Facebook,

or wherever, for TBN.

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Joshua: Can you explain

for our listeners TBN?

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Joseph: TBN is Trinity

Broadcasting, right?

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One of the original TV stations

came from right here in Southern

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California, but the publishing is called

Trilogy something something, right?

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TBN, and so they wanted to keep

the acronym, or whatever, and so,

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but call it something a little

different, so it's called Trilogy,

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and so I just saw an ad for them.

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I communicated with them.

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They asked for a few

chapters I sent it to him.

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They said they love it, and so then

as things were developing there, I

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remember one day I'm just like, "Okay.

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I think this is done.

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Is there anything else?"

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I sat down in my chair.

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I have a chair, I sit in, I read

my Bible, and wait on the Lord,

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and so I just said, "Okay, Lord.

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Is there anything else?", and he gave

me two more chapters, and so the two

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chapters were Katie and the Jewel,

so I'm not going to tell you what

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those are, but nevertheless, you'll

get the surprise, and so I added

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those, and the Jewel was pretty easy.

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Katie was a little bit of work, but

I added those, and then put it all

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together, send it in, and they edited it.

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The content was pretty good.

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They were all happy with it, so a few

spelling and grammar passes, and stuff

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like that, and eventually, you get

to the place where everybody's happy.

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Joshua: When you got the final draft

of it, and you were going through

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it, and having this opportunity to

essentially share it to the world,

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which you did, and you have a website

that shows that, and I'll throw

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that website into the episode notes.

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I'll know you'll mention it later.

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What did it make you feel?

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Was there a sense of accomplishment,

proudness, maybe a sense of, "I'm

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finally getting this out there?"

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Tell us what that meant for you to

have this all wrapped up, and now

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being able to get to the final stages

of getting it out in circulation.

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I was really stoked.

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Obviously, the ultimate goal is the

movie, so I did recently finished

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the screenplay, and I've got that in

editing right now; send it to an editor,

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but yeah, that was exciting, and so

I did write another book out all the

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way back in 2006, and so that was If

You Want to Grow Rich, Plant A Tree:

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Income, so the thing with that is I

wrote it, and then I realized that

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I knew nothing about marketing,

because I thought you put it on the

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internet, and everybody's going to

want one, and I didn't sell a single

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copy, and so it was, it had a landing

page and I didn't know how to market.

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Joshua: I was going to

say; yeah, trust me.

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I've had episodes, even though

this podcast, I put them up.

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Zero, and I'm like, "What happened

here?", so I can understand.

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Yep.

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No, sorry.

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I had to do that, just to

show the humanity that we have

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these creative outlets, and

we sometimes get smashed down.

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Joseph: Right, and so, you know, coming

into this one, I was with TBN, and

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there's expectations, and they don't

promise that they're going to market it.

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It's kind of a hybrid type thing where

they help you, but then ultimately,

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it's up to you, so my primary marketing

strategy at the moment is to be on

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podcasts like this one, so here we

are, nevertheless, so it doesn't

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sell itself, just so you know.

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I was watching an ad on Facebook,

and some guy came on and says, "Oh!

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You can write a book and it'll

practically sell itself.", you

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know, and I'm like, "No they don't.

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They do not sell themselves.",

so I've sold more than zero, but

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nevertheless, you do have to market it.

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I think, you know, once I get the

movie up, and people get to see

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the movie, that'll help a lot.

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Joshua: Tell us a little bit

about the movie development.

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You said that you just did the

script, and you sent that along.

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Is that something that's

slated for a future date?

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Maybe you want to let our listeners know

what it's anticipated to be released.

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Joseph: Yeah.

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I don't know.

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I sent it to an editor.

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I want to make sure I got everything

right before I actually submit it, so

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there's definitely some differences.

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There's a couple of differences.

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People always say, "The book

was better than the movie."

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All right, because then, your imagination

can get involved more with the book,

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and so you imagine it, and so it's

hard for a movie to live up to that.

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Nevertheless, I don't have anything.

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Nobody's bought it yet, so we'll

find out where it goes when

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somebody buys it up, and makes it.

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Joshua: Okay.

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I got to put you in a scenario, so

if you had any choice of who would

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play the starring roles in this

film adaptation, who would it be?

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Joseph: I don't know.

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He's kind of young.

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He's under 30, and she's closer to

20, and so it would have to be a young

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actor, and so, I have thought about

that a lot, and so who would it be?

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I don't know.

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My kids did acting.

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I got my kids into acting.

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My girl did a Nutella commercial, so I've

got four kids, and three of them have

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done some kind of commercials, so when I

got divorced, that whole thing came to an

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end, unfortunately, but nevertheless, they

did acting, so in writing the book, I do

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think about that, because they all went

to auditions, and as some person said,

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"It doesn't matter how good you can act.

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It matters how good you can audition.",

right, so for the most part, my girl

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did really good, and she was born first.

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She's my oldest.

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She's 21 now.

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She's in college, but she was really

good auditioning, but I think about

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that, but also just in my writing style,

something that happened in the acting

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classes really stuck with me, and that

is one of the classes they were in here

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in San Diego, the teacher was talking

about the moment before, so a scene

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starts, and there was always something

happening before the scene started, right?

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It didn't just happen out of nowhere,

and so people are carrying thoughts

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and emotions, and wearing whatever

clothes, or whatever coming from the

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scene before, and so just something I

was always thinking as I'm writing about

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the emotions, and I noticed that when

I'm editing other people's work that I'm

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helping them with the emotion, you know.

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What emotions are people

bringing into the scene?

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How are they feeling, and so a lot of

the times people kind of describe the

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scene, and whatever, and you know,

younger writers really love to describe

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things, and so it's like, "Okay.

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You don't have to spend that

much time describing the face.

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It's not that important."

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or other things.

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What we want to know is how the people

are feeling; the human interaction.

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What's going on here?

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What's the emotional dynamic that's

happening here, so I was always

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thinking about that a lot as I was

writing it, so it's not just the

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action, but how the people are feeling.

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Joshua: Lifting ourselves from this,

and noting that we're almost out of

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time, I kind of had this question that

formulated as you were speaking about

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what you want people to experience.

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What do you want other people to

experience when they read your book?

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What is it that should be the reaction

that they should have after reading

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it, and obviously, I'm very broad in

that question, because let's be real.

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I didn't read it.

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My listeners probably haven't read it.

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They might pick it up afterwards.

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What would be something that you envision,

being that you're the author of it,

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that they should take away as a feeling?

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Joseph: The whole heart of it is exactly

what happened in the book of Hosea,

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why God did it, and that is how your

sin impacts God; how it hurts him, and

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so that is what we need to take away.

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God's out there.

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You're living your life, but the

things you do impacts Him, you know.

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It is a relationship, and obviously

we live in a Facebook world,

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and all the social media, and

you get to see all the stuff.

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It brings you into people's living rooms

in their lives, maybe sometimes more than

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you want, but as I'm, kind of looking

into oftentimes strangers lives, Facebook

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friends, or sometimes on the other side

of the world, and you never met them or

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anything, but the things that people are

doing, living their lives, and saying

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they have a relationship with God, and I'm

thinking, "How could you be doing such and

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such things when you have a relationship?

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Do you not know that this hurts God

these things that you're doing", and

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so, that's really what God wants to

bring our attention to in the book,

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and that's what I want to do also.

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Joshua: Speaking of what you want to do.

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What's next?

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You wrote this, and you did the film

that you're hoping to get into reality.

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What's beyond that?

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Joseph: I do have another novel book

movie that I want to write once I've

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done all I can do, and learn all I

can learn about publishing, and book

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writing, and movie making from this.

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I've got another one, and I'm

calling it Lilly's Long Day.

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It's modeled after my girl, as a

little girl and her personality type.

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She's very outgoing and vivacious

little girl; really bubbly personality.

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It's a single day in the life of

this girl, and it's an action packed

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day; early morning to midnight.

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A lot of things happen, and it's just a

really fun book, and of course, it's got

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God, and family, and stuff like that in

there, and just kind of an adventure,

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one day in her life, really exciting.

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I'm looking forward to doing that.

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Joshua: I love that, and it pays homage

to not only your family, but also gives

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a little bit of insight for even her

when she gets older, she'll be able

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to read that book to be like, "Dad!

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You wrote this about me?

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What an awesome dad."

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I know that I have no kids, but I have to

assume I lived through it with my friends,

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and their experiences with it, so I will

take your word that this will be something

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that will help so many people when it's

all said and done to kind of have a

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different perspective, but Joseph, I want

to give you the last few minutes here.

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I want you to let people know how

they can pick up the book, HOSEA:

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The Prophet Who Married A Prostitute.

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Perhaps they want to

get in touch with you.

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Maybe they have some questions

for you about the book itself.

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Maybe they want to learn a

little bit more about you.

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I know you do a number of other things

that we didn't even cover today,

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but I was wondering if you could

spend the last few minutes letting

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people know how to do all that.

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Joseph: Okay.

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Very good.

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Yeah, so the best place you can go,

the easiest place is josephdescans.com,

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and so that's my website.

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That's where you can find

the book, and I'll be making

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some changes there and stuff.

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You know what?

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I just emailed myself at the website,

and I didn't get my email, so I've got

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to go, "What's going on here?", I started

working on that yesterday to uncover that,

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but nevertheless, you can get me there.

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You can find me on facebook;

you know, Joseph Descans, and

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then I've got an entrepreneurial

group, Stoked Entrepreneurs.

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I'm kind of helping people build residual

income coming off my other book that

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I wrote, and I just remember too.

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I've got another website.

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It's called the Deep Production

Company, and I've got some of my

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kids stuff on there and whatever.

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I made it a while back because I

have aspirations to do kids stuff.

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Obviously, that's my book that's

yet to come, Lilly, and they were in

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acting and stuff, so I got a little

bit of stuff on there, and Instagram.

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What am I?

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Two Cat Rescuers.

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That's my YouTube channel, and I forget

what I'm calling myself on Instagram.

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How embarrassing TreeCatRescuer.

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There we are.

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Joshua: Yeah.

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TreeCatRescurer.

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Yeah.

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I was going to help you out there.

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Yep.

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Joseph: And those are all the places

you can find me, at least for the moment

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that I know of that I can remember.

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Joshua: No, that's good.

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I love it.

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Hey!

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For my listeners, even if there's more,

I'll throw it all in the episode notes

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for you to go check them out, follow

Joseph and his adventures, especially

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with all the things that he's doing for

the entrepreneurs, and even for his book,

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but I want to say to wrap up Joseph,

it's always a fascinating conversation.

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Like i've said to you earlier, I've

had a number of authors on the show,

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and each of them bring a different

perspective, and they have a different

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way in which they come about it.

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i have to say that for somebody that

had this vision of what this would look

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like in a movie before even writing

the book, but now getting to that part,

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it's a fascinating adventure to get

to it, and I appreciate you giving us

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some insight as to what it looks like,

because some people think that this is

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an easy process and it really isn't.

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It does involve a lot

of different sacrifices.

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It means that we have to be a little

disciplined, and even along the way, we

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have to find a way to even be noticed,

be marketable, and even talked about

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the fact that even your first book,

it wasn't successful, but you learned

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lessons, and you're now making this

into something that is a reality, so for

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all those reasons, Joseph, thanks for

being on Speaking From The Heart today.

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Thanks for sharing your story with

us, and I wish you much success

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with the script, and getting it

out there for all of us to watch.

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I can't wait to see you on the big screen.

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Joseph: Awesome.

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Thank you.

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Joshua: I want to thank Joseph again for

kicking off my new year of guests, and

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being part of the show overall, because

I think that his story, even what he

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has been able to write as a story, not

only has different morals that we can

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learn, but also has taught us, even

today, that we can look at traditional

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text, and turn them into contemporary

stories, things that have not only

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lessons that we can attune to, but also

change, or challenge our status quo.

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I think that one of the first things

that really struck me is that it reminds

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me all the way back in episode 2 when

I had Chris Hulse on the show talking

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about traveling around, learning how

to connect with people, and now I

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have another person, Joseph, taking

this cross country adventure, and then

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settling down with where he is today,

and, to use some of the words, like,

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gnarly and stoked, I'll tell you, that's

why I never grew up in California.

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I don't know if I could ever be

able to understand that lingo, that

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energy that people have out there.

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It's a completely different

vibe, but being a swimmer,

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being somebody that is a surfer.

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It certainly has shown that he can have

this creative energy to show others,

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and that's why talking about the book

today, talking about what he's been

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through to write that book, was really a

very interesting take, because who would

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ever thought that a prostitute, somebody

that you think of that gives sexual

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favors in so many ways, engaging in this

world, has then something that would

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give us an opportunity to talk about.

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I just think that is baffling to me.

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It's even something that even as a podcast

host, what do you do with something like

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this, and even then, I'm sorry, Joseph,

but it's sometimes hard, even for me,

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to think about what is the moral that

I want to pass along to my listeners

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with something like this, but I think

I came up with something that I think

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all of us, including Joseph, would like.

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I think that we think of prostitutes,

we think about the outcast, and I can

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think of many times in my life that

I've been viewed as the outcast, and

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even the Bible talks about a number of

different situations, not only with the

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prophets, not only with Jesus, for that

matter, being treated as the ultimate

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outcast, paying the price on the cross.

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I think we learn so much about how

we can have all these bad things,

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but we turn them into good things.

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These are situations, in themselves,

that not only build up this routine that

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we go through, and we sometimes have to

endure, but we can see and understand

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through these experiences that others go

through how we should treat others, how

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we should be able to be more respectful,

how we are able to learn, even after all

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these years, how we can plant that seed

so that others know that we should never

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treat people that way, that we want to

see them get to where they want to be,

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and Joseph really has done a great job,

even writing the book, to talk about

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these types of aspects, to be able to do

that soul searching process of even what

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it means to be damaged, to be demeaned,

be stuck in this connection of places

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that, even for his characters that he

has in the book, has been able to find

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places where love does exist, that we are

able to be appreciated, to be enjoyed,

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to be able to find ways in which we have

a deeper meaning, and I think that this

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process, no matter how long it might

take for us to write that story out,

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which even Joseph detailed, can be even

a difficult, arduous process in its own.

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Dan Armstrong, another person that we

had on the show now almost two years ago.

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I can't believe it's been that long, talks

about this even with his editing process,

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why it's such a love, hate relationship.

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I think that we sometimes get frustrated.

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We want to throw the towel in, and we've

had even guests in:

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about why that passion, that's what

drives us forward, and I think that's

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where Joseph's story really helps us

to learn that even with this editing

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process, even if it's dragged out, it

does allow us to develop new alternative

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motives, new morals, new paths in

which we can gain and garner attention.

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I think it's not about selling ourselves

though, because even if we want to be an

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author, we still have to say to ourselves,

"What is it that people want to buy?

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What is it that we want to

have as that relationship that

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connects everything together?"

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We have to hustle sometimes to get

what we want, and unfortunately,

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prostitution might be viewed that way,

even though it's illegal in many of

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the states here in the United States,

there's a different interpretation

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of prostitution across the world.

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I'm not even saying today that I want

anybody to partake in that type of

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activity, but what if it would look like

that we were able to at least talk about

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it, figure out why those things are taboo,

why those are issues in the first place.

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Why we aren't able to really express

ourselves more deeply with more meaning,

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:

because writing, in itself, talking

about this, is an expressive activity.

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Learning how to put this together,

even in a film adaptation that Joseph

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is working on with a director can

create such an expression of not

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only ingenuity, creativity, but also

how we can make an impact on others,

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especially in Joseph's case, God.

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I think that we have to learn that

pushing through a number of different

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situations, and a number different

things that might be impactful to us

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is what really is at the crux here.

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It's what really puts us into a position

of what we want to do to succeed, and I

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think that we heard so much about that

term of endearment that Joseph had to do

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today to get to writing this book, which

has been pushed off, put back on the

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table, pushed off, and put back on again.

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We've heard about even on other

episodes of what it means to find

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that path forward, even when we

see things that are obstacles that

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we have to jump over, destroy, or

do something completely different.

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Just know that even with all these

things, all these opportunities, all these

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distractions, our obligation, our feeling

to connect with others, means that we

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have to learn, and grow, and prosper with

all these different attitudes surrounding

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us, changing the status quo, making us

feel like we belong, and achieving what

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is really deep inside our motives, but

traveling, being able to settle down,

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being able to do that can be hard.

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It can be arduous, and I have to say

that for those that are out there that

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do have that kind of lifestyle where

you're always on the go, you don't have

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an opportunity to really take a break

because you're always doing something.

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I want you to know that this

is all about time management.

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This is about how you can connect

yourself to the bigger world out

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there, being able to share what you

have on your heart, what's on your

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mind, what you have experienced, and

giving people a different perspective.

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Writing in itself is a beautiful way to

do that, and it's something that I have

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even started to do with my own blog on my

business page, Your Speaking Voice, LLC,

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so if you are interested in following

my blogging journey, you can also go

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check out yourspeakingvoice.biz/blog.

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I have to say, it's easier

than that for yourself.

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You don't necessarily have

to follow other people.

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You don't have to follow what

they are doing, because we are

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:

manifestations of our own destiny when

it comes to learning from example.

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Joseph's example is from God.

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Your example might be from somebody

that's even closer than that, but

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nobody would probably say to you that

you can't get any closer than God,

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and I can completely respect that.

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I can understand why that is a process

in its own, but getting stuck, soaking

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into the areas in which you allow

love to take place, especially in a

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prostitute's case, is something of

a bigger motive that I want to talk

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about as we wrap up today's episode.

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Sometimes we are easily swayed

or judged by some of the things

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that have happened to us, whether

it's in the past or present.

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In the more recent episode in which I

talked about how we can become the brand

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:

new you, I talked about the importance of

seeing that we already have that identity.

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It's just a matter of just unlocking

it, using the right key combination,

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so that we are able to manifest that

into existence, and I think that we

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all know that we have what it takes

if we're just willing to see that no

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matter what it is that we've done in

the past, we can be loved for who we

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are, and what we're able to accomplish.

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What we're able to accomplish means

that we have to also get unstuck from

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what we have been feeling, what we've

been thinking, of ourselves, and that in

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:

itself can be a very challenging exercise.

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I urge you, even after today's episode,

if you're still on the fence about

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this new year, and you're not quite

sure how to best move forward, listen

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:

to what Joseph has been through.

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Listen to why writing this book was

really important to him, and gain

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inspiration as to how you can make such

a big impactful difference in your own

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life, because God's impact, or even any

kind of other impact that you want to

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:

have, starts from a place of just desire.

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What is it that you really want to

achieve by having that go into existence?

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:

What is it that you want to see as

a result of all these things that

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:

you've been working on come to life,

and I think that once you do that,

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once you see what is ultimately

possible, you are going to achieve it.

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You are going to become a different

version of who you once thought you were.

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I don't know about you, but this

year is an opportunity for us to even

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start writing our own story again.

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It's a brand new chapter.

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I'm starting chapter 38 this year, and

I'm super excited about what it looks

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like to be able to do that, so join me and

join others that are willing to do that.

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Go on that soul searching adventure.

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Go cross country if you

want to become a surfer.

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Learn a different language.

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Learn how to become more engaging.

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Don't engage in prostitution, but learn

about prostitution in a way in which

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will help you become more informed,

more educated, and maybe even be more

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creative in writing stories like Joseph

has, because even at the end of the

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day, even if you think this is crazy

that somebody would ever write something

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like this, I want you to know that you

have a seed that you plant, and that

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seed can make such a big difference,

even if you believe it doesn't, and

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can impact others, even a prostitute.

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Learn how not only how you can make an

impact from today's episode, but learn

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how you can change the status quo, if

you're willing, not just to become the

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best version of yourself, but learning how

you can help others to do the same exact

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thing, and I think that's pretty gnarly.

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Thanks for listening to episode

number 182 of Speaking From the

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Heart, and I look forward to

hearing from your heart very soon.

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Outro: Thanks for listening.

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For more information about our podcast

and future shows, search for Speaking From

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wherever you listen to your podcasts.

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Visit us at www.yourspeakingvoice.biz

for more information about potential

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See you next time.

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Joshua Smith

Joshua D. Smith is the Owner and Founder of Your Speaking Voice, a life coaching, business coaching, and public speaking company based in Carlisle, PA. Serving clients across the world, Joshua got his start in personal/professional development and public speaking in April of 2012 through his extensive involvement in an educational non-profit organization called Toastmasters International.

Toastmasters International operates clubs both domestically and internationally that focus on teaching leadership, development, and public speaking skills. Joshua quickly excelled in Toastmasters International and found that he had a passion for leadership and helping others find their confidence and their true "speaking voice". Joshua has held all club officer roles and most District level positions in Toastmasters International and belongs to numerous clubs throughout the organization. Joshua has also been recognized as two-time Distinguished Toastmaster, the highest award the organization bestows for achievement in leadership and communication.

Outside of his community involvement, education is something that Joshua has always taken great pride in. His academic achievements include a number of degrees from Alvernia and Shippensburg University. He earned a Bachelor's degree in political science and communications from Alvernia in 2009, a masters of business administration from Alvernia in 2010, and later a masters in public administration from Shippensburg in 2014.

In the professional world, Joshua has held multiple positions with the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania for over 14 years which includes a variety of data analytics, procurement, budgeting, business process improvement (IT and non-IT), legal compliance, and working with the blind. He has applied his public speaking and development skills in the professional world to tackle numerous public speaking engagements and presentations from all levels of the organization, including executive management.

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