Episode 187
Episode #182 - Never Judging A Book From Its Cover: An Interview With Joseph Descans
People can teach us a lot about ourselves, even those that may be leading a sinful life. The ways in which we can live life can also be impacted by those other individuals, but only if we are willing to take lessons from their experiences and put them into practice for ourselves. This requires not only a level of trust, but commitment and dedication to the process that they are undergoing to become better than they once was. Today's guest, Joseph Descans, author of the book "HOSEA: The Prophet Who Married a Prostitute", shares his experiences with writing this book, originally starting out as a movie script concept, and how it has helped him to launch into other projects that was given by God's calling. Through his experiences, learn how you can adapt a deeper appreciation for not only hard work, but dedicating yourself to a particular purpose, "higher" or not, to show how you are able to conquer anything that you set your mind to.
Guest Bio
Joseph was born in Indiana and moved to San Diego, California at 7 years of age with his mom and sister. At the age of 12, he became a surfer and graduated from Torrey Pines High School in the class of 1982, and graduated in 2000 from Point Loma Nazarene University. In addition to being a surfer, Joseph is an arborist, contractor, author, speaker, coach, snowboarder, and fisherman. His first book called "HOSEA: The Prophet Who Married A Prostitute", describes a wealthy contemporary Hosea, by the direction of God, marries a prostitute and starts a family.
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Transcript
Welcome to the podcast where relationships, confidence, and
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:determination all converge into
an amazing, heartfelt experience.
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:This is Speaking From The Heart.
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:Joshua: Welcome back to episode number 182
of Speaking From The Heart, and before I
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:go any further, Happy New Year 2025 as we
kick off a whole new series of Thursday
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:interview episodes starting with our first
guest of the new year, Joseph Descans.
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:Joseph was born in Indiana and moved
to San Diego, California at seven
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:years of age with his mom and sister.
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:At the age of 12, he became a surfer and
graduated from Torrey Pines High School in
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:the class of 1982, and then graduated in
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:In addition to being a surfer, Joseph is
an arborist, contractor, author, speaker,
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:coach, snowboarder, and fisherman.
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:Today, being on the show, he's
speaking about his book, HOSEA: The
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:Prophet Who Marries A Prostitute, in
which, in the story that he writes,
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:a wealthy contemporary Hosea, by
the direction of God, marries a
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:prostitute and starts a family.
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:You know, I have to say, something like
this, kicking off the new year, talking
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:about prostitutes, and before you tune
out on this episode, why don't you take
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:a listen to it, because I think that
Joseph's conversation with me focuses on
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:a number of different aspects not only
the authorship in which is why it was
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:such an important work that he did, but
also, what is the thing that really, at
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:the heart, you've been working on for
so many years and you need to be pushed
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:forward to be able to complete that, and
we talk a little bit about how it took
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:so long for him to get to this book and
really get that written, but I think that
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:we learn that even as we try to figure out
how we get through these situations that
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:we have in our life, even if we find ways
in which we express ourselves, especially
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:in writing, how can we make it impact,
whether that's on God, whether that's on
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:something that we need to do next in our
lives, I think you're going to learn quite
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:a lot today about how we can put ourselves
into a whole new adventure if we're just
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:willing to challenge the status quo.
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:If we're able, in this case, to take a
contemporary stance on our traditional
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:process, maybe even an idea of how it
is that we are able to make such a big
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:difference in other people's lives.
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:But with that, let's go to the episode.
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:All right.
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:We're here with Joseph Descans.
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:Joseph, thanks for sharing
your heart with us today.
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:Joseph: Yes.
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:Thank you for having me.
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:Joshua: Yeah, absolutely.
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:Thanks so much for taking some time,
and actually trying to work this out.
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:We had some technical issues
getting started, but it's okay.
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:We got there.
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:We're on the other side of it, and I'm
super pumped to have you on the show.
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:I already let my listeners know a
little bit about your background, but
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:I wonder if you could just give us a
big, broad overview of what landed you
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:into California just to set the stage,
because we will focus a lot more on your
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:book today more than anything else, but
I'm wondering if you can give us a big
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:snapshot of what landed you in California
when it was all said and done for us.
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:Joseph: Okay, very good, so I was
born in Indianapolis, Indiana, and,
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:I don't know, maybe when I was five,
my parents got divorced, something
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:like that, and so then my mom brought
my sister and I to California.
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:I believe I remember traveling
across the United States.
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:I think it was a Volkswagen bus, or
something like that, from Indianapolis
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:to California, ended up in San
Diego, and I've been here ever since.
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:Joshua: What do you like about
California, if you don't mind me asking?
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:Being that I'm a Pennsylvania city
slicker over here, I don't really
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:understand the California dreaming.
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:Joseph: Right, right, so for
me, I mean, here in San Diego,
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:you've got the sun and the ocean.
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:I surf.
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:I was a professional
surfer for many years.
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:My kids all surf.
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:It's about 10 to 15 minute drive
to the beach where we like to
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:go from my house on the freeway,
so it's a lot of sunshiny days.
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:The weather's temperate, right?
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:It is hot in the summer, but it
doesn't get too hot and too cold.
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:We don't have the big extremes,
and, of course, I can go surfing
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:pretty close to year round, so
that's the attraction for me.
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:Joshua: I actually wanted to ask you
about that a bit because I saw that that
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:was a big part of your background that
you are a surfer, and I'm wondering,
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:for my listeners, that aren't like on
the West Coast or have even gone any
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:sort of surfing before, what makes you
excited about surfing, or even doing
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:that activity in the first place,
because, for me, I never done that.
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:I'm more of a farmer where I
grew up so like that's sort of
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:my background more than anything.
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:Joseph: Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:We use this term "stoked", right?
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:The whole world kind of hitches that
up with surfers, and gnarly too, so I'm
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:both, but here's a funny story for you.
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:I was going surfing one day.
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:I was down at the beach,
and I wasn't at the beach.
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:I was up on the street, but I was
running down to the beach, like kind of a
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:little jog, right, and so these tourists
stopped me, and I park on the street.
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:You come to the end of the street.
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:It was a little roadblock type thing,
you know, at the end of the road.
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:It ends at the beach, but it's not the
beach, it's a cliff, so you have to
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:go down a little cliff, and so they
stopped me, and they go, "Excuse me.
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:Why are all the surfers
running?", and so I looked around.
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:I saw a couple other guys, and they were
both running too, and it was only the
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:surfers, right, and so I'm all, "Wow.
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:That's interesting.", and so
I said, "We're just stoked.
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:We're excited about going
surfing.", and so they're, "Oh.
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:Okay.
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:Thank you.
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:Bye.", so it was really funny, you know.
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:We got all these people all over the
place, and there's three surfers, and
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:we're all running to the beach, so it was
pretty funny, so it's definitely the stoke
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:factor: surfing, getting in the water.
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:Water is invigorating, right?
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:It just is, and then surfing and
riding the wave; it's super special.
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:It's fun.
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:There's obviously there's a skill.
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:There's the whole dynamic of
paddling out, catching a wave, and
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:then making the best of the wave.
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:Some people are happy just to get
out there and ride whitewaters.
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:Of course, I surf professionally, so
I'm kind of at a different level on
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:that, but nevertheless, it's just,
riding waves is just really exciting.
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:That's all there is to it.
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:Joshua: I feel like I've been writing
waves for all kinds of different
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:other reasons in my life, so I'm
sure that it has excitement and
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:thrill in itself, especially with
catching it at a certain time.
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:I mean, is it true to that the
surfer community is really close
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:knitted, and really tight when
it comes to different things?
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:They're trying to get that
wave, especially if it
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:was a hurricane coming in.
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:I feel like there's some diehard
people that really are out there
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:for the thrill of getting that
perfect surfing opportunity.
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:Joseph: Right.
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:Right.
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:There definitely is.
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:There's the search.
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:There's the planning.
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:I mean, even now, especially when I was
surfing professionally, surfing big waves,
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:looking for the big waves, the big swells,
and being at the right place, at the
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:right time, when the big swells came in.
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:There's a lot that goes into it.
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:Now we have surf report, and so you can
get a whole lot of information from that,
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:but back when I had less information, I
work mostly off the weather radio, and
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:so the weather radio would give you the
winds and the swells, the local wind,
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:and then there's a buoy out there a
hundred miles, Tandor Bank, and you get
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:different information from up north,
and down south, on the different buoys,
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:and so all of this information I would
listen to, and analyze it carefully, and
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:plan, and of course, you want to be out
there for the best days, the best time,
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:and there's a lot that goes into it.
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:We've learned a lot along the way
as far as predictions and stuff, and
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:where the swells are coming from,
there's intervals, like how close are
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:the swells together, and you learn.
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:There's some little bit of information
from all of that tells you how it's
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:going to be, so it's definitely
a little bit of work to find that
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:perfect day in the planet and be there.
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:Joshua: Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:Oh yeah.
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:You have to definitely set up enough
time for yourself, and to be able to
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:enjoy that experience, and even have
the patience, if you will, even if there
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:is a good report to actually catch one,
so thanks for sharing that, because I
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:feel like I'm going to surf right into
your book, and I've been really excited
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:about this because it is a fiction piece.
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:I just found this out, for my listeners,
as I was talking to Joseph before the
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:show, and I'll read the title, and maybe
you need to correct me too, because I was
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:trying to figure out if how to exactly
say the first word, but we'll go with it.
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:Is it HOSEA: The Prophet
Who Married A Prostitute?
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:That's the name of it, correct?
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:Joseph: Yes.
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:Joshua: Wow.
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:When I read the title, I
was like, "Wait a moment.
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:Is this about you?", and then
I was looking through it.
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:It's like, "No.
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:It's not about him.
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:It's actually a fiction book.", so I
like that took the element of surprise,
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:so listeners, I already redressed that
with Joseph before we got started, but
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:tell me a little bit about, first off,
the book itself and the premise of it.
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:Joseph: Okay, so it's a modern day
telling of the Old Testament prophet
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:Hosea, so in Bible, you know, he's
one of the minor prophets, which
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:doesn't make him any less important.
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:It's just according to the
size of the book, right?
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:The prophet is a type of God, and
he marries a prostitute, and so it's
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:God talking about his relationship
with his people as they're going
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:back and forth between different
gods, which he calls harlotry, right?
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:His God's experience with this
relationship is like being married to a
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:prostitute who's constantly out running
around on him, and so, this is the most
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:graphically displayed in the books of
Kings, and Judges, and Chronicles, right,
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:where they talk about the kings, and
Israel was pretty solid going after other
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:gods, but Judah went back and forth,
and so, that's where it comes from, so
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:it's God's story, basically, in a sense.
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:That's what it's about.
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:Joshua: What led you to actually thinking
of this idea outside of it being in the
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:Bible, being one of the stories, because I
do remember this even growing up as a kid.
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:My stepfather, I didn't tell you this,
was a Lutheran pastor, so I was exposed
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:to a lot of those different things.
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:I didn't have direct connection
with church and going on a regular
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:basis, but I was wondering, why
write a story that's fiction based?
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:Joseph: Okay, so what happened is when
I first conceived this, what was it,
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:2012, so my habit was to take the kids to
school in the morning, and then come home
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:and pray, and so when I prayed, it was
usually kind of walking around the house,
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:walking around the kitchen, and so on this
particular day, I just started praying,
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:and I was praying for a half an hour, and
things were feeling a little different.
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:I was just praying in the spirit, and
after about a half hour, this movie came
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:to me, and so I understood a movie, so
it's like in John chapter three when
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:you're born again, except you're born
again, you cannot see the kingdom of
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:heaven, right, so a lot of the times
we just think of that in terms of
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:going to heaven someday, but really,
you're seeing the kingdom of heaven.
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:You enter the kingdom of
heaven now, while you're alive.
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:Jesus said, "The kingdom of heaven
is at hand.", right, and so as being
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:a part of the kingdom of heaven,
sometimes we get to see what's going
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:on, so see, meaning understand, and
so I had the understanding of a movie.
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:I didn't have a vision.
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:I didn't see anything, but I understood
it, so it's kind of interesting the
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:way these things happen, and so I just
understood this movie, and so it came
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:to me, and for over about a half hour
period, and then I took some notes,
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:right, and then I got started, and
so it took me 10 years to write the
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:book, so that's where it came from.
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:It wasn't my idea.
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:I can't say, "Oh, I had
this great idea one day."
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:It wasn't my idea at all.
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:It was something that
came to me supernaturally.
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:I took notes, and then I started writing.
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:Joshua: It took you 10 years
and I know for some people they
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:might be saying right now, "Wow!
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:That's a long time.", and I know that even
for some authors that I've had on the show
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:previously, and for my listeners, you have
to go all the way back to Charlie Liebert,
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:Hector Ortiz, and other people that I've
had, even Dan Armstrong for that matter.
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:I've had many different people that have
expressed their different attitudes,
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:their different approaches as to why, and
I actually am curious before I even dive
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:into any of those, although it took you 10
years, what kept you going as to wanting
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:to write this, and get this out there?
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:There had to be some sort of
motivation or drive to push you.
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:Joseph: Yeah, so 10 years, I got divorced.
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:I moved a bunch of times.
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:I think I moved at one point, I
moved five times in two years,
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:so obviously, that's crazy.
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:I think maybe it was three
years, but nevermind.
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:That's just a lot of times, and so-
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:Joshua: That's a lot of moving, and that
it eats up a lot of time for writing
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:too, so I understand that completely.
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:Joseph: Yeah, exactly, so
I had a rough go of it.
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:It was very, very difficult times,
and so that definitely threw a
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:wrench in time, et cetera, et cetera.
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:You just take bites at it to keep going.
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:There's so many distractions and all that
stuff in the world, but you know, there's
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:just something, there was a seed that was
placed in my heart, you know, at that time
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:when I got it, and so I just kept coming
back to it, and like anything, it's a
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:process, and so the two big things I had
to get over early was A, just my writing,
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:because I was like seeing a movie, but
I was thinking in terms of writing a
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:novel, and so I had my tenses all jacked
up, you know, so I was just all over the
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:place, and so I finally just said, "Okay.
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:We'll do the movie after.
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:Let's do the novel first, and get the
tenses down, and then we'll just go
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:back and do the movie.", and so that
was one early thing I had to work out.
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:It took a while, and then the other
thing is the biggest challenge, you
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:know, there's a lot of soul searching
and stuff that happens during the
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:process, and so the biggest thing was
I tried to not make it a love story,
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:so basically, we as people, we want to
protect ourselves from being hurt, right?
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:We enter into relationships, marriage,
and everything else going, "Okay.
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:This is for life, and everything's going
to be all hunky dory, and we're going to
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:live happily ever after.", but Hosea,
he doesn't come into it like that.
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:He comes into it knowing already that,
"I'm marrying a prostitute, and she's
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:going to be running around on me.",
right, and so it's like for me coming
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:into that, I wasn't able to do that.
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:I just couldn't do it, so I tried
to not make it a love story.
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:I tried to have him distance himself from
her in a sense, you know, like, "Okay.
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:I'm not going to fully engage here.",
but I couldn't do it, and I didn't
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:realize what was happening, right, and
so I just couldn't write, I was stuck,
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:and so then, okay, what do you do?
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:You go back to the book of Hosea,
right, and you just read it again,
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:and so I was reading it, and it said,
"Go and love a woman.", and I froze
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:there, and I read that, and just
soaked on that, and I go, "Okay.
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:That's the missing element.
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:That's why I can't write.
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:I'm trying to write it without
love, and it's a love story.",
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:and God makes him vulnerable.
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:He's going to get hurt, right, but
he's willing to take that risk,
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:you know, and he says, "Okay.
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:I'm going to take that risk, and I
know they're going to run around on
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:me and hurt me, but I'm just going
to keep reaching out to them, and
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:pray that it works out in the end."
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:Joshua: Tell me a little bit
about the editing process with it.
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:I know that even from other people
outside of the show that have written
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:books, it's a very extensive process.
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:You're working sometimes with a publisher,
maybe not, and I kind of curious if you
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:did, because I don't know if you self
published this yourself because there is
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:an industry for that, but I'm wondering
if you could tell us a little bit about
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:how that all unfolded to get to the final
copy that we have available to us today.
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:Joseph: Right, so I wrote it,
and it's 10 years writing.
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:Joshua: There had to be a lot
of disjointedness with that too,
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:especially with it being 10 years old.
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:Joseph: And it came together bits
and pieces, and so I just kind
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:of wrote as things come together,
and I remember at one point, you
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:I'm like, "Okay.
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:Where's this thing?", and so I just
printed a bunch of stuff out, and laid it
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:out, spread it out on the table, and then
put it all in order, and then go, "Okay.
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:Here's the order, you
know, what goes where.
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:How am I going to do this?", and then
I got to a point where I'm like, "Wow.
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:It looks like I might be done.
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:I think the whole story's done
here.", and so, it's like, "Okay.
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:Well let's go ahead and send it.
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:See if anybody wants to print
it.", so I sent it to TBN.
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:I was getting ads on Facebook,
or wherever, for TBN.
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:Joshua: Can you explain
for our listeners TBN?
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:Joseph: TBN is Trinity
Broadcasting, right?
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:One of the original TV stations
came from right here in Southern
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:California, but the publishing is called
Trilogy something something, right?
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:TBN, and so they wanted to keep
the acronym, or whatever, and so,
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:but call it something a little
different, so it's called Trilogy,
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:and so I just saw an ad for them.
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:I communicated with them.
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:They asked for a few
chapters I sent it to him.
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:They said they love it, and so then
as things were developing there, I
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:remember one day I'm just like, "Okay.
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:I think this is done.
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:Is there anything else?"
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:I sat down in my chair.
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:I have a chair, I sit in, I read
my Bible, and wait on the Lord,
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:and so I just said, "Okay, Lord.
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:Is there anything else?", and he gave
me two more chapters, and so the two
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:chapters were Katie and the Jewel,
so I'm not going to tell you what
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:those are, but nevertheless, you'll
get the surprise, and so I added
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:those, and the Jewel was pretty easy.
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:Katie was a little bit of work, but
I added those, and then put it all
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:together, send it in, and they edited it.
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:The content was pretty good.
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:They were all happy with it, so a few
spelling and grammar passes, and stuff
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:like that, and eventually, you get
to the place where everybody's happy.
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:Joshua: When you got the final draft
of it, and you were going through
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:it, and having this opportunity to
essentially share it to the world,
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:which you did, and you have a website
that shows that, and I'll throw
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:that website into the episode notes.
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:I'll know you'll mention it later.
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:What did it make you feel?
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:Was there a sense of accomplishment,
proudness, maybe a sense of, "I'm
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:finally getting this out there?"
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:Tell us what that meant for you to
have this all wrapped up, and now
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:being able to get to the final stages
of getting it out in circulation.
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:Joseph: Yeah.
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:I was really stoked.
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:Obviously, the ultimate goal is the
movie, so I did recently finished
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:the screenplay, and I've got that in
editing right now; send it to an editor,
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:but yeah, that was exciting, and so
I did write another book out all the
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:way back in 2006, and so that was If
You Want to Grow Rich, Plant A Tree:
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:Biblical Insights Into Growing Residual
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:Income, so the thing with that is I
wrote it, and then I realized that
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:I knew nothing about marketing,
because I thought you put it on the
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:internet, and everybody's going to
want one, and I didn't sell a single
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:copy, and so it was, it had a landing
page and I didn't know how to market.
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:Joshua: I was going to
say; yeah, trust me.
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:I've had episodes, even though
this podcast, I put them up.
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:Zero, and I'm like, "What happened
here?", so I can understand.
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:Yep.
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:No, sorry.
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:I had to do that, just to
show the humanity that we have
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:these creative outlets, and
we sometimes get smashed down.
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:Joseph: Right, and so, you know, coming
into this one, I was with TBN, and
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:there's expectations, and they don't
promise that they're going to market it.
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:It's kind of a hybrid type thing where
they help you, but then ultimately,
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:it's up to you, so my primary marketing
strategy at the moment is to be on
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:podcasts like this one, so here we
are, nevertheless, so it doesn't
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:sell itself, just so you know.
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:I was watching an ad on Facebook,
and some guy came on and says, "Oh!
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:You can write a book and it'll
practically sell itself.", you
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:know, and I'm like, "No they don't.
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:They do not sell themselves.",
so I've sold more than zero, but
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:nevertheless, you do have to market it.
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:I think, you know, once I get the
movie up, and people get to see
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:the movie, that'll help a lot.
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:Joshua: Tell us a little bit
about the movie development.
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:You said that you just did the
script, and you sent that along.
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:Is that something that's
slated for a future date?
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:Maybe you want to let our listeners know
what it's anticipated to be released.
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:Joseph: Yeah.
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:I don't know.
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:I sent it to an editor.
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:I want to make sure I got everything
right before I actually submit it, so
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:there's definitely some differences.
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:There's a couple of differences.
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:People always say, "The book
was better than the movie."
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:All right, because then, your imagination
can get involved more with the book,
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:and so you imagine it, and so it's
hard for a movie to live up to that.
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:Nevertheless, I don't have anything.
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:Nobody's bought it yet, so we'll
find out where it goes when
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:somebody buys it up, and makes it.
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:Joshua: Okay.
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:I got to put you in a scenario, so
if you had any choice of who would
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:play the starring roles in this
film adaptation, who would it be?
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:Joseph: I don't know.
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:He's kind of young.
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:He's under 30, and she's closer to
20, and so it would have to be a young
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:actor, and so, I have thought about
that a lot, and so who would it be?
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:I don't know.
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:My kids did acting.
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:I got my kids into acting.
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:My girl did a Nutella commercial, so I've
got four kids, and three of them have
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:done some kind of commercials, so when I
got divorced, that whole thing came to an
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:end, unfortunately, but nevertheless, they
did acting, so in writing the book, I do
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:think about that, because they all went
to auditions, and as some person said,
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:"It doesn't matter how good you can act.
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:It matters how good you can audition.",
right, so for the most part, my girl
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:did really good, and she was born first.
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:She's my oldest.
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:She's 21 now.
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:She's in college, but she was really
good auditioning, but I think about
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:that, but also just in my writing style,
something that happened in the acting
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:classes really stuck with me, and that
is one of the classes they were in here
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:in San Diego, the teacher was talking
about the moment before, so a scene
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:starts, and there was always something
happening before the scene started, right?
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:It didn't just happen out of nowhere,
and so people are carrying thoughts
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:and emotions, and wearing whatever
clothes, or whatever coming from the
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:scene before, and so just something I
was always thinking as I'm writing about
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:the emotions, and I noticed that when
I'm editing other people's work that I'm
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:helping them with the emotion, you know.
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:What emotions are people
bringing into the scene?
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:How are they feeling, and so a lot of
the times people kind of describe the
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:scene, and whatever, and you know,
younger writers really love to describe
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:things, and so it's like, "Okay.
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:You don't have to spend that
much time describing the face.
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:It's not that important."
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:or other things.
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:What we want to know is how the people
are feeling; the human interaction.
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:What's going on here?
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:What's the emotional dynamic that's
happening here, so I was always
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:thinking about that a lot as I was
writing it, so it's not just the
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:action, but how the people are feeling.
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:Joshua: Lifting ourselves from this,
and noting that we're almost out of
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:time, I kind of had this question that
formulated as you were speaking about
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:what you want people to experience.
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:What do you want other people to
experience when they read your book?
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:What is it that should be the reaction
that they should have after reading
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:it, and obviously, I'm very broad in
that question, because let's be real.
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:I didn't read it.
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:My listeners probably haven't read it.
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:They might pick it up afterwards.
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:What would be something that you envision,
being that you're the author of it,
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:that they should take away as a feeling?
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:Joseph: The whole heart of it is exactly
what happened in the book of Hosea,
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:why God did it, and that is how your
sin impacts God; how it hurts him, and
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:so that is what we need to take away.
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:God's out there.
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:You're living your life, but the
things you do impacts Him, you know.
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:It is a relationship, and obviously
we live in a Facebook world,
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:and all the social media, and
you get to see all the stuff.
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:It brings you into people's living rooms
in their lives, maybe sometimes more than
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:you want, but as I'm, kind of looking
into oftentimes strangers lives, Facebook
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:friends, or sometimes on the other side
of the world, and you never met them or
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:anything, but the things that people are
doing, living their lives, and saying
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:they have a relationship with God, and I'm
thinking, "How could you be doing such and
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:such things when you have a relationship?
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:Do you not know that this hurts God
these things that you're doing", and
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:so, that's really what God wants to
bring our attention to in the book,
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:and that's what I want to do also.
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:Joshua: Speaking of what you want to do.
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:What's next?
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:You wrote this, and you did the film
that you're hoping to get into reality.
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:What's beyond that?
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:Joseph: I do have another novel book
movie that I want to write once I've
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:done all I can do, and learn all I
can learn about publishing, and book
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:writing, and movie making from this.
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:I've got another one, and I'm
calling it Lilly's Long Day.
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:It's modeled after my girl, as a
little girl and her personality type.
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:She's very outgoing and vivacious
little girl; really bubbly personality.
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:It's a single day in the life of
this girl, and it's an action packed
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:day; early morning to midnight.
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:A lot of things happen, and it's just a
really fun book, and of course, it's got
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:God, and family, and stuff like that in
there, and just kind of an adventure,
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:one day in her life, really exciting.
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:I'm looking forward to doing that.
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:Joshua: I love that, and it pays homage
to not only your family, but also gives
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:a little bit of insight for even her
when she gets older, she'll be able
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:to read that book to be like, "Dad!
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:You wrote this about me?
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:What an awesome dad."
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:I know that I have no kids, but I have to
assume I lived through it with my friends,
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:and their experiences with it, so I will
take your word that this will be something
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:that will help so many people when it's
all said and done to kind of have a
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:different perspective, but Joseph, I want
to give you the last few minutes here.
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:I want you to let people know how
they can pick up the book, HOSEA:
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:The Prophet Who Married A Prostitute.
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:Perhaps they want to
get in touch with you.
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:Maybe they have some questions
for you about the book itself.
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:Maybe they want to learn a
little bit more about you.
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:I know you do a number of other things
that we didn't even cover today,
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:but I was wondering if you could
spend the last few minutes letting
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:people know how to do all that.
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:Joseph: Okay.
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:Very good.
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:Yeah, so the best place you can go,
the easiest place is josephdescans.com,
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:and so that's my website.
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:That's where you can find
the book, and I'll be making
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:some changes there and stuff.
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:You know what?
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:I just emailed myself at the website,
and I didn't get my email, so I've got
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:to go, "What's going on here?", I started
working on that yesterday to uncover that,
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:but nevertheless, you can get me there.
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:You can find me on facebook;
you know, Joseph Descans, and
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:then I've got an entrepreneurial
group, Stoked Entrepreneurs.
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:I'm kind of helping people build residual
income coming off my other book that
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:I wrote, and I just remember too.
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:I've got another website.
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:It's called the Deep Production
Company, and I've got some of my
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:kids stuff on there and whatever.
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:I made it a while back because I
have aspirations to do kids stuff.
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:Obviously, that's my book that's
yet to come, Lilly, and they were in
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:acting and stuff, so I got a little
bit of stuff on there, and Instagram.
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:What am I?
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:Two Cat Rescuers.
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:That's my YouTube channel, and I forget
what I'm calling myself on Instagram.
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:How embarrassing TreeCatRescuer.
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:There we are.
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:Joshua: Yeah.
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:TreeCatRescurer.
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:Yeah.
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:I was going to help you out there.
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:Yep.
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:Joseph: And those are all the places
you can find me, at least for the moment
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:that I know of that I can remember.
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:Joshua: No, that's good.
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:I love it.
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:Hey!
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:For my listeners, even if there's more,
I'll throw it all in the episode notes
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:for you to go check them out, follow
Joseph and his adventures, especially
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:with all the things that he's doing for
the entrepreneurs, and even for his book,
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:but I want to say to wrap up Joseph,
it's always a fascinating conversation.
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:Like i've said to you earlier, I've
had a number of authors on the show,
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:and each of them bring a different
perspective, and they have a different
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:way in which they come about it.
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:i have to say that for somebody that
had this vision of what this would look
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:like in a movie before even writing
the book, but now getting to that part,
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:it's a fascinating adventure to get
to it, and I appreciate you giving us
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:some insight as to what it looks like,
because some people think that this is
521
:an easy process and it really isn't.
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:It does involve a lot
of different sacrifices.
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:It means that we have to be a little
disciplined, and even along the way, we
524
:have to find a way to even be noticed,
be marketable, and even talked about
525
:the fact that even your first book,
it wasn't successful, but you learned
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:lessons, and you're now making this
into something that is a reality, so for
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:all those reasons, Joseph, thanks for
being on Speaking From The Heart today.
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:Thanks for sharing your story with
us, and I wish you much success
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:with the script, and getting it
out there for all of us to watch.
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:I can't wait to see you on the big screen.
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:Joseph: Awesome.
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:Thank you.
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:Joshua: I want to thank Joseph again for
kicking off my new year of guests, and
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:being part of the show overall, because
I think that his story, even what he
535
:has been able to write as a story, not
only has different morals that we can
536
:learn, but also has taught us, even
today, that we can look at traditional
537
:text, and turn them into contemporary
stories, things that have not only
538
:lessons that we can attune to, but also
change, or challenge our status quo.
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:I think that one of the first things
that really struck me is that it reminds
540
:me all the way back in episode 2 when
I had Chris Hulse on the show talking
541
:about traveling around, learning how
to connect with people, and now I
542
:have another person, Joseph, taking
this cross country adventure, and then
543
:settling down with where he is today,
and, to use some of the words, like,
544
:gnarly and stoked, I'll tell you, that's
why I never grew up in California.
545
:I don't know if I could ever be
able to understand that lingo, that
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:energy that people have out there.
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:It's a completely different
vibe, but being a swimmer,
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:being somebody that is a surfer.
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:It certainly has shown that he can have
this creative energy to show others,
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:and that's why talking about the book
today, talking about what he's been
551
:through to write that book, was really a
very interesting take, because who would
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:ever thought that a prostitute, somebody
that you think of that gives sexual
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:favors in so many ways, engaging in this
world, has then something that would
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:give us an opportunity to talk about.
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:I just think that is baffling to me.
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:It's even something that even as a podcast
host, what do you do with something like
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:this, and even then, I'm sorry, Joseph,
but it's sometimes hard, even for me,
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:to think about what is the moral that
I want to pass along to my listeners
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:with something like this, but I think
I came up with something that I think
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:all of us, including Joseph, would like.
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:I think that we think of prostitutes,
we think about the outcast, and I can
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:think of many times in my life that
I've been viewed as the outcast, and
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:even the Bible talks about a number of
different situations, not only with the
564
:prophets, not only with Jesus, for that
matter, being treated as the ultimate
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:outcast, paying the price on the cross.
566
:I think we learn so much about how
we can have all these bad things,
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:but we turn them into good things.
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:These are situations, in themselves,
that not only build up this routine that
569
:we go through, and we sometimes have to
endure, but we can see and understand
570
:through these experiences that others go
through how we should treat others, how
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:we should be able to be more respectful,
how we are able to learn, even after all
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:these years, how we can plant that seed
so that others know that we should never
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:treat people that way, that we want to
see them get to where they want to be,
574
:and Joseph really has done a great job,
even writing the book, to talk about
575
:these types of aspects, to be able to do
that soul searching process of even what
576
:it means to be damaged, to be demeaned,
be stuck in this connection of places
577
:that, even for his characters that he
has in the book, has been able to find
578
:places where love does exist, that we are
able to be appreciated, to be enjoyed,
579
:to be able to find ways in which we have
a deeper meaning, and I think that this
580
:process, no matter how long it might
take for us to write that story out,
581
:which even Joseph detailed, can be even
a difficult, arduous process in its own.
582
:Dan Armstrong, another person that we
had on the show now almost two years ago.
583
:I can't believe it's been that long, talks
about this even with his editing process,
584
:why it's such a love, hate relationship.
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:I think that we sometimes get frustrated.
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:We want to throw the towel in, and we've
had even guests in:
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:about why that passion, that's what
drives us forward, and I think that's
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:where Joseph's story really helps us
to learn that even with this editing
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:process, even if it's dragged out, it
does allow us to develop new alternative
590
:motives, new morals, new paths in
which we can gain and garner attention.
591
:I think it's not about selling ourselves
though, because even if we want to be an
592
:author, we still have to say to ourselves,
"What is it that people want to buy?
593
:What is it that we want to
have as that relationship that
594
:connects everything together?"
595
:We have to hustle sometimes to get
what we want, and unfortunately,
596
:prostitution might be viewed that way,
even though it's illegal in many of
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:the states here in the United States,
there's a different interpretation
598
:of prostitution across the world.
599
:I'm not even saying today that I want
anybody to partake in that type of
600
:activity, but what if it would look like
that we were able to at least talk about
601
:it, figure out why those things are taboo,
why those are issues in the first place.
602
:Why we aren't able to really express
ourselves more deeply with more meaning,
603
:because writing, in itself, talking
about this, is an expressive activity.
604
:Learning how to put this together,
even in a film adaptation that Joseph
605
:is working on with a director can
create such an expression of not
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:only ingenuity, creativity, but also
how we can make an impact on others,
607
:especially in Joseph's case, God.
608
:I think that we have to learn that
pushing through a number of different
609
:situations, and a number different
things that might be impactful to us
610
:is what really is at the crux here.
611
:It's what really puts us into a position
of what we want to do to succeed, and I
612
:think that we heard so much about that
term of endearment that Joseph had to do
613
:today to get to writing this book, which
has been pushed off, put back on the
614
:table, pushed off, and put back on again.
615
:We've heard about even on other
episodes of what it means to find
616
:that path forward, even when we
see things that are obstacles that
617
:we have to jump over, destroy, or
do something completely different.
618
:Just know that even with all these
things, all these opportunities, all these
619
:distractions, our obligation, our feeling
to connect with others, means that we
620
:have to learn, and grow, and prosper with
all these different attitudes surrounding
621
:us, changing the status quo, making us
feel like we belong, and achieving what
622
:is really deep inside our motives, but
traveling, being able to settle down,
623
:being able to do that can be hard.
624
:It can be arduous, and I have to say
that for those that are out there that
625
:do have that kind of lifestyle where
you're always on the go, you don't have
626
:an opportunity to really take a break
because you're always doing something.
627
:I want you to know that this
is all about time management.
628
:This is about how you can connect
yourself to the bigger world out
629
:there, being able to share what you
have on your heart, what's on your
630
:mind, what you have experienced, and
giving people a different perspective.
631
:Writing in itself is a beautiful way to
do that, and it's something that I have
632
:even started to do with my own blog on my
business page, Your Speaking Voice, LLC,
633
:so if you are interested in following
my blogging journey, you can also go
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:check out yourspeakingvoice.biz/blog.
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:I have to say, it's easier
than that for yourself.
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:You don't necessarily have
to follow other people.
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:You don't have to follow what
they are doing, because we are
638
:manifestations of our own destiny when
it comes to learning from example.
639
:Joseph's example is from God.
640
:Your example might be from somebody
that's even closer than that, but
641
:nobody would probably say to you that
you can't get any closer than God,
642
:and I can completely respect that.
643
:I can understand why that is a process
in its own, but getting stuck, soaking
644
:into the areas in which you allow
love to take place, especially in a
645
:prostitute's case, is something of
a bigger motive that I want to talk
646
:about as we wrap up today's episode.
647
:Sometimes we are easily swayed
or judged by some of the things
648
:that have happened to us, whether
it's in the past or present.
649
:In the more recent episode in which I
talked about how we can become the brand
650
:new you, I talked about the importance of
seeing that we already have that identity.
651
:It's just a matter of just unlocking
it, using the right key combination,
652
:so that we are able to manifest that
into existence, and I think that we
653
:all know that we have what it takes
if we're just willing to see that no
654
:matter what it is that we've done in
the past, we can be loved for who we
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:are, and what we're able to accomplish.
656
:What we're able to accomplish means
that we have to also get unstuck from
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:what we have been feeling, what we've
been thinking, of ourselves, and that in
658
:itself can be a very challenging exercise.
659
:I urge you, even after today's episode,
if you're still on the fence about
660
:this new year, and you're not quite
sure how to best move forward, listen
661
:to what Joseph has been through.
662
:Listen to why writing this book was
really important to him, and gain
663
:inspiration as to how you can make such
a big impactful difference in your own
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:life, because God's impact, or even any
kind of other impact that you want to
665
:have, starts from a place of just desire.
666
:What is it that you really want to
achieve by having that go into existence?
667
:What is it that you want to see as
a result of all these things that
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:you've been working on come to life,
and I think that once you do that,
669
:once you see what is ultimately
possible, you are going to achieve it.
670
:You are going to become a different
version of who you once thought you were.
671
:I don't know about you, but this
year is an opportunity for us to even
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:start writing our own story again.
673
:It's a brand new chapter.
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:I'm starting chapter 38 this year, and
I'm super excited about what it looks
675
:like to be able to do that, so join me and
join others that are willing to do that.
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:Go on that soul searching adventure.
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:Go cross country if you
want to become a surfer.
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:Learn a different language.
679
:Learn how to become more engaging.
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:Don't engage in prostitution, but learn
about prostitution in a way in which
681
:will help you become more informed,
more educated, and maybe even be more
682
:creative in writing stories like Joseph
has, because even at the end of the
683
:day, even if you think this is crazy
that somebody would ever write something
684
:like this, I want you to know that you
have a seed that you plant, and that
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:seed can make such a big difference,
even if you believe it doesn't, and
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:can impact others, even a prostitute.
687
:Learn how not only how you can make an
impact from today's episode, but learn
688
:how you can change the status quo, if
you're willing, not just to become the
689
:best version of yourself, but learning how
you can help others to do the same exact
690
:thing, and I think that's pretty gnarly.
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:Thanks for listening to episode
number 182 of Speaking From the
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:Heart, and I look forward to
hearing from your heart very soon.
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